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I am 21 and in a relationship with another woman.
We have been together for a year and our sex life is great. However, I reach my orgasm very quickly, generally within five minutes of clitoral stimulation.
Is this normal? This does not only occur with her; it even happens when I masturbate. Can I train myself not to orgasm as quickly? I would not consider this abnormal, rather an indication that you know your own body well, and your lovers are skilled — although it's worth mentioning that if you tend to use a vibrator it may lead you to orgasm faster than your sexual response would normally build. I can understand why you would want to learn to delay — it would lead to longer periods of pleasure and probably more satisfying, intense orgasms. An experienced lover who understands the concept of "teasing" could help you with a little power-exchange sex, or you could train yourself to delay climaxing by gaining awareness of your point of orgasmic inevitability.
When masturbating, try to stop just before the point of no return, then wait. After four minutes,then repeat, before allowing yourself to orgasm on the third attempt.
Once mastered, you could progress to trying this with an understanding partner who will obey your command to stop. Eventually you will have the control you desire.
Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. Sexual healing Sex. I orgasm too quickly. Can I train myself to delay it? I have been seeing another woman for a year.
Our sex life is great, apart from this. What should I do?
Pamela Stephenson Connolly. Topics Sex Sexual healing Relationships features. Reuse this content.Force her to orgasm
email: [email protected] - phone:(649) 400-1964 x 5305
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